With this question in mind, I'm never asking people to give me feedback anymore. Instead, I ask them what advice would they give me. And this has important implications. Read on.
Instead of pointing to things that we can actually work on, judgement and bulling lump our whole selves into an indiscriminate mass of failure and rejection, leaving us ostracized and helpless. Read on to understand more about guilt and shame and how they relate to our propensity to commit crime, to depression, and to self-improvement: https://thecorrespondent.com/73/can-guilt-and-shame-ever-be-positive/978340671-863dd837.